Building Memories

How do we build memories? Is it when we have shared ideas problems, experiences and emotions to other people? What about helping strangers or taking care of a child whom you don’t actually know? From these situations alone, we can say that we build memories with them especially if we did something which is for their own good.

In addition, sometimes, we tend to take for granted those people who care for us, who loved us and never forget us. Let us talk about this movie entitled “50 First Dates” wherein the main character named Lucy who had a problem with her short-term memory and the stage of her memory cannot proceed to long-term memory. In her case, people around her, especially her father and her brother tried their very best just to meet the usual things that Lucy did before she’d undergone with the car accident. Adam Sandler who played the role as the lover of Lucy never stopped courting Lucy even if he’ll gonna do it everyday. It is because he really loved Lucy despite the fact that she cannot remember him after 24 hours.

With this movie, I was really touched because it is a rare one for a guy who will be patiently in-love with a woman who happened to lose her memory and can only remember you for 24 hours. I was crying because I knew that it is really hard in the part of the guy to court Lucy everyday.

This is why at present, I tend to treasure every person who came into my life because I don’t know if someday, these persons will just lost their memory and cannot remember me anymore.

As what the saying goes: “True happiness doesn’t depend on possession or position. It comes from the quality of relationships with the people we love and respect. And these creative meaningful relationships build lasting memories.” Sometimes, we tend to control other people but we should not insist that we owned them just because we do have a relationship. It is not the measure of true happiness but the good memories we have shared throughout the years…

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

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